I miss my family back home already. It's been 3 years since the last time we we went to visit. I talk to them online and call them every now and then but still, nothing compares to their actual presence. I have not been close to my older sister growing up. She is 10 years older than I am, so we don't really get along well. But eversince I left, we became closer. She's my confidant, everytime hubby and I would fight. I could tell her anything, and I find it amazing because back then, I barely talk to her.
I am her confidant as well, everytime she would have an argument with her hubby, she would send me a text, asking if I could call her so we could talk. We would cry our hearts out while listening to each others problems and we would comfort each other all the time. My being away from her is like a blessing in disguise because it brought us closer together. My brother on the other hand has always been close to me. He is always on my side and always protects me as her little sister. Now that I am far from him, we became closer than ever. We would chat all the time and he can't wait to see me and the kids again. He's the perfect big brother...
Pardon my rants, I just want to express what I feel. It is my choice to move here, so even if I miss them, I have to stay beside my hubby. I will see them real soon and I can't wait to hug my sister and my brother again.
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hi pretty mom..saan ka ba sa philippines??oo nga iba tlaga ung presence pero in time, you'll be with them din...save mode muna diba..:)
It can't be easy being so far from your family and it's wonderful that you can keep in touch even though you're apart. I find that brothers & sister become more dear as we get older. Perhaps it's because they connect us to our past. I'm sure they miss you too. You are blessed to have each other. . .So you're a Louisiana Girl like me. Yeay!!
wow.. teary-eyed nmn ako sis.. very nice bonding even far.. sometimes it's just like that ang mag-sisters, kelangan magkalayo para maging close. Ngayon nga mga half-siblings ko naging close na nagkalayo.. nice one sis.. sge, share ka lang dyan, I admire you for being an optimistic.. keep going! muahhh!
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Kaya mo yan!!!!!
yay....last time namo uli sis was 2007....hahhahaha...parehas rata woi..been a long time nasad ko waka uli...si Akesha was 13 month old when we first visit as a family...:)
3 sad diay mo sis? sos am sure excited jud imo family makakita sa inyo puhon...when man mo mag uli?
sa lunes na among alis sis...gosh, been pretty busy...anxious nako...lol!
na d man me mag laag woi..walay budget...sa CDO ra siguro me..tapos hapit me ug cebu...din 1 day tour sa S. Korea...mao ra na among itinerary....lol!
saon man jud woi, crisis kaau...limited ra among bulsa...hahahha! maau man mo diha kay daghan man mo ug moolah.
salamat sa dalaw at comments sis ha...:)
Blessing in disguise nga siguro yung pagkakahiwalay nyo nang ate mo. Mas naging closer kayo at nakakapag confide kayo sa isa't isa. Namimiss mo ang pamilya mo sa Pinas pero that is the price you have to pay for ensuring a good future for your children. Anyway madadalaw mo rin naman ang pamilya mo sa Pinas from time to time. Kailangan lang magtiis sa pagkawalay mo sa pamilya mo. Someday mawawala lahat ang problemang iyan at magkakasama sama rin kayong lahat. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.
with the way you miss them lets thanks for the high tech way of communication,hehe..magkikita rin naman kayo ng personal kaya tiis lang muna..
hello ging, agoy, pwede man ka manawag sa akoa ging oyy, i am a shoulder to cry on baya hehehe...wa lang ko time mag blog hop but, can answer my fon anytime
anyway, lahi ra bitaw ging noh? saon man jud, nia man dinhi ato pares...ako bana willing man puyo pinas but, naka panukad naman gud ko diri...besides, wala naman ko sa teaching, wala nko work didto
mingaw lagi pero sige lang, bawion nalang inig uli...
Kanang mis understanding ni mister, part na naa sa marriage life, as long as you love each other, everything will be alright.
Nia rako diri ha, gapahipi if you need someone to talk to.
It's hard to live far from your family; but you now have had your own family, Kath...
huhuhu...maka.apil man sad ta ug kamingaw....
happy to know that my high-tech na karon nuh sa una mail lang bali dugaya and telegram....pag-magadali...
imo family diay diha?...it´s not enough or just misses the laag sa ato-a hehehe!
Ja I do understand Kath...dili lalim...
Yes, distance can change people whether positively or negatively. Good for you as you have changed positively. Some people get amnesiac when distance separates them:)
Have a great weekend, dear friend! Mwahhh!
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